Day 142 – 147: Family Farm
Place: The Castle Lodge, Ross-on-Wye (not in Wales like Craig said)
June 2006 was the last time that I was fortunate enough to see my beautiful little Buck family and the time has finally come to see them again.
Thursday, 23rd August
We arrived to Cheltenam Spa station at 14:04, where my SUPER-AUNT, Eileen picked us up with the bright white smiles of Emily and Maria in the back.
Warm embraces made the last 6 years melt away quickly. The girls, Emily and Maria were only 9 and 8 years old at the time and the years have been VERY good to the both, as they have blossomed into wonderful young ladies.
I was beaming from ear to ear reminiscing about racing around with them in their busy lives and couldn’t wait to reach the farm to show off to Craig and introduce him to my Uncle Rob.
The afternoon flew by and with no time to waste, we chatted, giggled and caught up over a yummy homemade roast chicken, glass of wine and a warm fire.
Friday, 24th August
Today was going to be busy day as we were heading into Cirencester for the morning to visit Eileen’s folks, Des and Julie. This endearing couple are so much fun to be with. Des is a charming gentleman with a wicked sense of humour and has a captivating ‘knack ‘ for telling good jokes and stories. Julie is a real Irish darling with amazing wit and a playful little streak, which is probably why she got along so well with Craig, in fact she has a not so secret crush on what she describes as ‘a good one’.
The morning started with a very eager husband waking up at about 5am, keen to have a cup of tea and chat. I, however knew what was in store for the day, so entertained the idea for about 20min and then made my way back to bed for at least another hour of sleep. My dear husband did not, and after his cup of tea, he polished some silver (true story) and then went for a walk down the lane. When Craig eventually came to his senses and his eyes became heavy…he grabbed the opportunity to sleep while the rest of us got ready.
A slow stroll through an awesome antique market, followed by a beer and chips at the pub, Cornish pasties from the local pie shop and finished off with scrumptious cakes and tea and then a quick rush back to Steepleton Farm where we would then prepare one of Eileen’s trademark dishes…MOUSSAKA (eggplant lasagna).
There is something so wonderful about sitting around a big table in the kitchen, discussing the day’s events with family while preparing food and sipping on a good glass of wine.
Saturday, 25th August
If we thought that Friday was a busy day…we would learn a lot about the term ‘busy’ this day.
Maria was taking part in an equestrian gymkhana, where she would be showcasing with 3 different horses (all of which are new to the sport).
Wet, cold and grey skies greeted us at 5:30am, but didn’t discourage the bubbly girls and always ‘on form’ Eileen, where we raced to load the horses and make our way to Bampton for the exiting day’s competition.
We climbed onto a huge lorry where together with a tv, fridge, stove, horses and beds arrived and were ready to go.
Maria was a champion from start to finish. She is determined, focused and most importantly passionate about her horses and each event. I was so super proud of her and so thrilled to see her perform and do so incredibly well.
What better way to celebrate a good English day, with good English weather (rain, then sun, then hot and then cold), horses, farms, Cotswold’s and finally…hot fish and chips in the car, overlooking a field of wheat – bliss.
Sunday, 26th August
Finally, a very slow morning, just the way God intended Sundays to be spent….with family.
The sun was out (well in English terms) and it was the perfect day to have a picnic and game of rounders in a local field…. and that’s exactly what we did.
Eileen and Rob took us, the girls and poppy (black Labrador which is like the third child) to a local pub where we sat in the garden watching kids in the swings, chickens peck at nearby tables and swans swoon across the water.
I love the way the British (and Europeans in general) enjoy the summer…a small glimpse of sunlight and warmth, and they are out and about, embracing every ray of sunshine that they can.
The wine was having its giddy little impact on our senses, only meant one thing…it was time to put some food in our stomachs and sober up for a ‘serious and intense’ game of rounders.
We found an idyllic spot in a nearby field, where we laid the blanket, set up chairs to enjoy the view and unpacked the baskets of what we thought we packed. Instead we found a half packed basket with crackers, tomatoes, chocolate, pickled onions and of course…wine. Somehow in the slow-motioned movements of the morning, we had forgotten to pack the cheese, butter and cold meats.
Nevertheless, stomachs were sufficiently filled and the carbo-loading was done just in time for the game. Rob, Emily and myself would take on the boisterous Craig, young and fit Maria and all rounder Eileen. We started off slowly, and without making too much of a stink and embarrassing the opposing team, I will just say that we absolutely CREAMED them and literally ‘hit them out of the park’.
Aaaaaaah, nothing beats the exhilarating feeling of success J
We ended this fantastic day with a classic…THE SOUND OF MUSIC.
Monday, 27th August
Bank holiday = long weekend (for everyone else) and off to Cirencester we went to run a couple of errands, visit the folks one last time and most importantly, buy Emily a couple of fish to add to this amazing family.
We enjoyed another of Eileen’s trademark dishes, and one of Craig’s favourite…Spaghetti Bolognaise followed by a ‘battle of the brains’. We split into 3 teams (Maria and I, Craig and Emily took on Eileen and Rob) – great fun.
Tuesday, 28th August
I cant believe that the visit was over and I would again have to say ‘see you later’ to these special people.
I am so appreciative of the time that I got to spend with my darling Aunt, re-establish relationships and learn about my eccentric, bubbly, and stunning little cousins, and love my Uncle Rob again. This was such a blessing for me to spend time with this family. They have played such a vital part in my life and I am so exited to see what The Lord hold for them in the future.
I tearfully said goodbyes and we jumped onto the bus towards Ross-on-Wye, which I was told by Craig was in Wales only to be disappointed to find out in mid conversation with locals that the border was in fact 6 miles away…..
Oh well, I will leave it to Craig to tell you about our time here and the rest of our journey through Wales.